Dear Elsa, I am 20 yrs old. Sometimes I get turned on by watching lesbian porn… in fact, watching all porn (gay, straight, lesbian) turns me on. Does this make me a lesbian? When I was 15 I liked this female teacher of mine but only because she was nice to me. I even dreamt […]
Dear Elsa, I’ve been married only one year, and my husband is addicted to porn and has anger issues. He’s always lashing out at me. He has drastic mood swings. He goes from being the most wonderful loving guy in the world to being completely non-respondent.He keeps telling me he is erasing all of the
Dear Elsa, I have been married for 6 years. I am 46 so is my husband. He has used porn for the whole marriage. In the beginning of our relationship I gave it a shot, but discovered I enjoyed sex better without the porn; it seemed to distract from our intimacy level. He never stopped
Dear Elsa, My boyfriend and I have been together for over 2 years now. We have lived together for a couple months. I caught him looking at porn once and it really made me upset. He knew this, and I had made it clear to him I would never tolerate it again because I feel
The wide variety and copious amount of pornography available these days I would also chock up to Pluto in Sadge. When Pluto moves through a sign, we see the shadow side if the things it rules. It’s the publishing (Sagittarius) of that which is private (Pluto), on a wide scale (Sagittarius). Taboo sex (Pluto) is
Dear Elsa, My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and things are wonderful… except I think he is addicted to porn. I have caught him on several occasions and each time there has been a big blow out, and each time I tell him how hurt and betrayed it makes me feel.
Elsa, I recently got married to a man that I considered to be perfect. I had never known anyone like him – he didn’t seem to have a lot of the typical “male” behaviors, and I respected and admired that about him. I had asked him about pornography in the past… not in an accusatory
