Dear Elsa, For a little over a year, I have been having a relationship with a married man with three kids. His wife is an alcoholic and although even though he will admit this, he seems to be in denial about it. He says he is not in love with her anymore but he doesn’t […]
Dear Elsa, I’m only 19 but I am pretty sure I am a lesbian – but not totally sure. You see up until two years ago I had crushes on men, and I wanted to be with them, even the ones that many girls might not find attractive. I fancied those guys. I had dreams
Dear Elsa, I am in a relationship with a Pisces man. I am a self confessed commitment-phobe, but I am very, very conscious that “enough is enough”. I am tired of hurting others and myself. I want to commit and have a meaningful relationship. I want to know how I can relax and achieve this.
Dear Elsa, I have been dating someone for about 3 years. He and I are both divorced. He and I are both divorced. He and his ex-wife were swingers. When we got together, we agreed this wasn’t for us. However, he continues to have contact with his “previous friends” and this really bothers me. He
Dear Elsa, I got married about 8 months ago, and instantly we fell into a domestication that makes me feel trapped and angry. I am unaware of how to change the problem. I imagine myself expressing these concerns to my husband and asking for more of an open like relationship where we decide what we
I was talking to my Pisces pal again today. She got off to a bad start this morning, but by early evening she’d gotten some good news. “All right!” I said. “You got some water in your pool, girl!” “Yep.” “About a foot, anyway. You have water up to your knees.” I laughed. “Not so
Now speaking of confusion… I met my editor, HQ, in 2002. He had been reading my original blog for about a year and he contacted me about putting a book together. That first phone call, I really went off on him. I have that Mars Mercury conjunction and I just started swearing and yelling. HQ
I was on the phone with a Pisces pal who was highly cranky. “I hate being in a mood,” she said, sounding snitty. “I guess everybody does. No one like being in a mood.” “Yeah, they don’t.” “I don’t know what happened to me,” she said. She was so happy a few days ago. “I
