Dear Elsa, Two weeks ago, I found out my husband has been cheating on me. We have great sex, he is my best friend and I always tell him everything. We have been married for 12 years, have 2 children and we both dedicate everything to them and to ourselves at night. But I can’t […]
I would have to say that my favorite horoscope writer of all time was Patric Walker who died in 1995. If you’re not familiar with him and want an idea how beloved he was… check this tribute written by a depressed non-believer in astrology : “I learned this morning that Patric Walker, author of the
Hi, Elsa — I’ve noticed when people write in with problems involving a partner withholding sex (or with a lesser sex drive than the questioner), you often caution that it’s unlikely this situation will change. (Like with your answer to the Rejected Capricorn) This gulf will only widen, you’ve said in so many words on
Dear ElsaElsa! I just love your blog! I like your insightfulness and your straightforwardness: no beating about the bush! Your posting on the mars-scorpio-sex-OCD-connection touched me! A wonderful example of how directness and empathy can go hand-in-hand, indeed! I am an Aries with Scorpio rising myself, so I do relate to this urge to” express
Dear Elsa, I am a 30 year old married woman. I met a good looking 26 year old guy at work. He flirts with me every time he comes to my office. Last week he asked me to kiss him and I am suddenly developing some feelings. I have never thought that I would look
I have Virgo in my chart, and as acutely aware as I am of my secret lives, Scott read this post yesterday and shocked me with this observation: Most of you know I write a lot of true stories, accounts of various experiences I’ve had. And I have this ability to recall dialogue, verbatim. From
Hi Elsa, I am having trouble relating to my sisters. I talk to them all very superficially, but I feel I cannot be myself around them. We grew up in a religious home (evangelical Christians) but I am not religious. I curse like a trucker, I am pro-choice, I hang out with all kinds of
Hello, I’m a 29 year old female and I’m in such an emotional rut! I’m extremely lonely, depressed, and negative about the my past and future. The person I’ve been living with for 5 years has moved out to find his own place and I’m in emotional ruin. Throughout our relationship I was very jealous,
