Dear Elsa, I have known my boyfriend for 16 years, but we just started a romantic relationship in 8 months ago. I know he doesn’t believe in marriage and is quite content to live together for the rest of our lives. He states he will marry me if that’s what I really want. But do […]
Elsa, I recently got married to a man that I considered to be perfect. I had never known anyone like him – he didn’t seem to have a lot of the typical “male” behaviors, and I respected and admired that about him. I had asked him about pornography in the past… not in an accusatory
Catch up here – Ugly Bartender… The next day we rented a little boat to putt around the lake. “Lemme drive,” I said. “Sure.” I’ve never been on a boat in my life, so I hit the throttle full blast, by my nature. Let’s see what she can do, right? My boyfriend immediately turned green.
Here’s a story that illustrates how these aspects work. The man in this story had Saturn in Scorpio, widely square my Venus in Leo. Saturn restricts. Venus is your vanity… I was nineteen when I won the Ugly Bartender Contest. It was a charity thing, sponsored by the local Budweiser distributor. It cost a buck
The Astrology Behind The Art… Thanks everyone for the great comments on Scott’s essay regarding the Cellist Series. Since some astrologers showed up, I thought it might be interesting to talk about his chart, or at least of a piece of it. Scott has Venus (art) conjunct Mars (sex, aggression) and Pluto (intensity). Now if
Hi Elsa – I have loved a younger man for the last 5 years. I got involved with him because of how he made me feel. But last year, I felt forced to face the age difference. I placed an ultimatum before him to move out if he didn’t get a job, since for the
Dear Elsa, How can I attain the honest, loving, stable relationship that I need and long for? Getting close to me is tough I know especially after two failed marriages. However I remain hopeful in spite of this. Bar scenes are difficult at best, and I find small talk useless and boring. It make me
Dear Elsa, I have been married for close to nine years. During this time, I have had one physical affair and many online flings… ranging from phone sex to cybersex. Hubby knew about very little about this – except for my real life affair, which I was very upfront about. I was deep into the
