I have just ended a 5 year on-again off-again relationship. My heart is healing…slowly. I have been chatting with a young man from Morocco who hopes for us to meet, marry, and live together until we die. I don’t know whether to take this young man seriously, or keep my options open and continue to hope for someone else.
I admit he is handsome and kind, two excellent qualities, but am I being stupid? I’m 39 and he is almost 23. I go back and forth with, “This is stupid” to “What if?”
Venus in Sagittarius
You’re not stupid. Five years is a long time to spend with someone just to have it end. I am sure you are hurting and most any of us would look for some kind of salve to ease this kind of pain. It’s human nature.
But if you want to know if you are going to end up with this man who is half your age and half way around the world… and have it work out? Well I would have to say, the odds are very, very low as to be almost non-existent. I am sorry!
I understand he is handsome and he is sweet and I am glad he’s come into your life to provide some respite and some form of escape. But I do think ultimately, you are going to find this new relationship probably cannot be sustained and you will have to back and deal in the here and now with the loss of your last relationship and the astrology supports my theory.
You have Venus in Sagittarius (foreigners) conjunct Neptune (fantasy) so there is your ability to desire to escape via the dreamy Moroccan, but you also have Pluto (death) transiting the end of your 7th house (relationships). And though you’re getting there, you’re not quite done processing the loss of this relationship. So both these things are working simultaneously, and there is nothing wrong with that. But are you going to be Mrs. Morocco? I don’t think so.