Advice on anything and everything under the sun!
Dear Elsa, I am a 30 year old married woman. I met a good looking 26 year old guy at work. He flirts with me every time he comes to my office. Last week he asked me to kiss him and I am suddenly developing some feelings. I have never thought that I would look […]
Hi Elsa, I am having trouble relating to my sisters. I talk to them all very superficially, but I feel I cannot be myself around them. We grew up in a religious home (evangelical Christians) but I am not religious. I curse like a trucker, I am pro-choice, I hang out with all kinds of
Hello, I’m a 29 year old female and I’m in such an emotional rut! I’m extremely lonely, depressed, and negative about the my past and future. The person I’ve been living with for 5 years has moved out to find his own place and I’m in emotional ruin. Throughout our relationship I was very jealous,
Dear Elsa, I am a Capricorn, engaged to a Capricorn. We constantly have issues regarding sex drive. I have a much higher drive than he does. When we have sex, it is awesome and totally fulfilling. But it is just on his terms usually and infrequent. He is always complaining of being tired or just
Dear Elsa, I was seeing a guy who I thought ‘was the one’ for about 3 months when he said he wasn’t ready for commitment and we broke up. Three months later, he rang me saying he had thought about nothing else but me and wanted to spend his life with someone and he wanted
Dear Elsa, I hail from a family of incestuous behavior and violent abuse. My brother and I got to be the “guinea pigs” so to speak. My sisters (for some odd reason) were spared the violent attacks but not the sexual abuse. No, I cannot say for sure that my brother was also perpetrated but
Hello Elsa, I have never really been good at maintaining platonic friendships or finding and maintaining romantic relationships. Part of me longs deeply for closeness and intimacy. The other part seems to push people away when they get too close. Part of me aches for touch. But another part of me feels very anxious when
Hi ElsaElsa, My last serious relationship ended 8 months ago. Recently something sparked with someone I study with at university. We got to know each other fairly well over a few months. Anyway after some drinking, I ended up going home with her after a party. We ended up having sex and a week later
