Advice on anything and everything under the sun!
Dear Elsa, I have a bad habit of “crushing”. It’s excruciating because I’m at a place in my life where I really don’t even have the time to date. I just bought a house and am attempting to make ends meet (knot them together, really) with two jobs, weekends used for upkeep, etc. Anyhow, I’ll […]
Dear Elsa, I have achieved more in life than I ever dared to hope. But I’m almost 28, and I have never had a real relationship. I used to not like myself. Now I do, but I’m still scared that others won’t. I have so much love to give and I’m wondering if I will
Dear Elsa, I am married to a wonderful guy but last year I started working for a married guy who began flirting with me endlessly. I realize now he just wanted attention and validation of his attractiveness. But unfortunately, in the process, I fell for him and have incredibly strong feelings… enough so that I
Dear Elsa, I always end up being too eager when I meet a guy I really like. Most of the time, I am not interested in anything romantic with people I meet, though it’s always friendly & fun conversation. Then I’ll meet a guy I really like and even if he is chasing me originally,
Dear Elsa, I have known my boyfriend for 16 years, but we just started a romantic relationship in 8 months ago. I know he doesn’t believe in marriage and is quite content to live together for the rest of our lives. He states he will marry me if that’s what I really want. But do
Elsa, I recently got married to a man that I considered to be perfect. I had never known anyone like him – he didn’t seem to have a lot of the typical “male” behaviors, and I respected and admired that about him. I had asked him about pornography in the past… not in an accusatory
Hi Elsa – I have loved a younger man for the last 5 years. I got involved with him because of how he made me feel. But last year, I felt forced to face the age difference. I placed an ultimatum before him to move out if he didn’t get a job, since for the
Dear Elsa, How can I attain the honest, loving, stable relationship that I need and long for? Getting close to me is tough I know especially after two failed marriages. However I remain hopeful in spite of this. Bar scenes are difficult at best, and I find small talk useless and boring. It make me
