Patterns in relationship
“Elsa, I’m not sure who’s right and who’s wrong in your scenario (yep, I’m Libra rising) but I read your story in between chores… Like so many good men and grand partners…your soldier sounds infuriatingly perfect and perfectly infuriating.. lol.” maureen on Mars bitching out Venus. maureen – yeah, he’s a dick and I like […]
Dear Elsa, I have been with my partner for about 9 months. When we are together, we are very happy. We feel very much in love and enjoy each other’s company very much. The problem is his baby’s mother. He has two daughters with his ex. They were together for 9 years – the same
I would characterize myself as extremely gullible. But I notice is it’s the other person who is ultimately harmed. I think this is what happens when you’re screwing around in a hall of mirrors and you forget it’s in a hall of mirrors. Slap me and you’ve slapped yourself with no idea how it happened.
“I’ll wind up the dark one, you’ll see,” I said, talking to the soldier. “You’re the dark one until I get involved and just watch. Mark my words, you’re going to be the poor soul sucked in by me, you little victim. Pooooor soldier. He was great until he got tied up with her. Things
Hello Elsa, I have a problem with falling in love with the wrong people. I fall in love with friends. We meet, there is no initial interest, then they overtake my life and I find myself thinking of them romantically. This places me in a position of vulnerability and angst. I become this loathsome pathetic
Hi Elsa, Just met an Aquarian guy. We not exactly dating we chatting, do our thing sometimes. I think he is sweet and feel very bad every time he act distant, he never said I love you just call me ‘my love’ only when he is drunk and that would be it. I sometimes say
Dear Elsa, Since we seem to all have love on our minds these days, what is astrology’s take on obsession? I am not talking about bad pathological obsession but the ones that are beyond mere crushes. They hit you out of nowhere to churn around in your insides until you do something uncharacteristic (and usually
Hi – I’ve been talking to a Libra guy online for the last 3 months. He hasn’t asked me out. He messages me then ignores me. Whenever I get frustrated I stop replying to his messages and he comes back in a flash, saying he was busy. He has a lot of other female friends
