Patterns in relationship
Dear Elsa., As time goes on, my Scorpio boyfriend of three years seems less and less interested in sex. When we first met, it was fireworks. That lasted for about a year into the relationship and since having our baby a year ago… I have initiated it every time. If I didn’t try for it, […]
Dear Elsa, I fell for a Scorpio female a few years ago. We quickly felt a connection between us. The whole “opposites attract” thing. It escalated quickly and she has taken me deeper and deeper into her life. Being passionate people, it was not long before our relationship took a physical turn. This has been
A client told me she’d met her new man the same way she’d met her (last) husband. “That’s a pattern. Not that there is anything wrong with it. Just be aware. It may just be how you do things. This is something that is effective for you. But you may be fixing to go in
Dear Elsa, I got married about 8 months ago, and instantly we fell into a domestication that makes me feel trapped and angry. I am unaware of how to change the problem. I imagine myself expressing these concerns to my husband and asking for more of an open like relationship where we decide what we
Dear Elsa, I’ll come right to the point. I have been single all my life. I have been a single mother since 1982: my oldest child is 24 and my youngest is 5. My relationships always end and they have all been violent or unrequited/one sided. When will I ever meet a good man that
Hello Elsa, I’m a 45 year old single woman who started dating a Scorpio male about three months ago. We get along well, but I am wondering if ultimately he may be too serious and reserved for me – or if I am actually afraid of commitment. I can’t seem to enjoy the moment as
Dear Elsa, I have just ended a 5 year on-again off-again relationship. My heart is healing…slowly. I have been chatting with a young man from Morocco who hopes for us to meet, marry, and live together until we die. I don’t know whether to take this young man seriously, or keep my options open and
Dear Elsa, I was wondering if you had any advice on how to deal with my Virgo ex-boyfriend. He was my first serious relationship, and keeps coming in and out of my life. I met him 4 years ago and we dated for one intense month. Unfortunately, he let me give him my virginity before
