Dear Elsa,
I am in a relationship with a double Pisces man. I am a double Virgo. We are very attracted to each other sexually, and he tells me he loves me but for some reason I keep asking myself what his motivation is. He is very sweet and we understand each other well. Is it normal to feel un-trusting towards him?
Double Virgo
Morocco
Dear Virgo,
I don’t like to decide what is normal. If you tend to be a person who does not easily trust then to be un-trusting is normal for you.
Now you’ve got a difficult chart and I think this is reflected in your relationship. Because you are having great sex with a man who is sweet and understanding yet you are suffering and this is the thing to investigate and try to alter. Judging from what you’ve written he’s done nothing to betray your trust or arouse your suspicion so where is this coming from?
You don’t have the chart of someone who is particularly paranoid but you do have the chart of someone with a high sex drive, probably interested in psychology, prone to worrying and get this: fantasizing.
And I don’t KNOW but if I was going to guess… considering his planets are opposite yours I would imagine it possible you have his motivation confused with your own. You are a born investigator see. So are you in the relationship for love… or something else?
And I am not judging this so don’t take it that way. What I am suggesting is that you are a very complex young woman so just keep asking questions like this one and you’re going to be fine.
Good luck.
Tried commenting before but computer crashed, so if this didn’t go thru…
I was thinking that maybe opposites really do attract on a sexual level at least but there is often the uneasiness too, because after all, they are opposite? And a double Virgos might have to do the critical thinnking to compensate for double Pisces vahueness (for lack of a better word).
And I was going to suggest that maybe oppositions were by nature intense; but I wonder if I don’t just think that because my sun-sign opposite is Scorpio…