Hi Elsa,
Back in October, I met a Virgo man. We got along wonderfully and I could tell we really liked each other; we talked everyday. As the time passed he called less frequently and backed away and when I questioned him, he said it was because he liked me.
When I like a person I want to talk to them more not less, and I got upset and told him that. After that, things were not the same. Two months ago I told him I thought I was falling in love with him and have not heard from him since. I have tried calling him and he has completely ignored everything.
I am trying to find out what happened and get closure. Did I scare him off? Or is he thinking about it and will he come back? He never officially broke off the relationship.
Completely Confused
United States
Dear Confused,
I am sorry this man’s mixed signals set you on a path to confusion, but at this point his signals are abundantly clear. He is not interested. And further, you are not going to get “closure” because he is not going to give it to you. The reason being that he’s not capable of giving it to you.
He is also not capable of telling you that he doesn’t like you, that he likes someone else better, that he changed his mind or whatever else his reason for pulling away may be. And if you have even a modicum of class (he doesn’t), then you will respect his shortcomings and relent with contacting him and/or professing your love. And beyond that you can learn from this. Because these are facts:
When it comes to relating to others, people have varying levels of skill. And there is nothing you can do about their mastery on this front. But there is plenty you can do about yourself and your post suggests you can use some help on this front and that I have.
Some years ago I had a friend who had an MO that was similar to yours. That is, when a man pulled away from her, she chased him even harder. And she never caught anyone doing this and eventually it caused her enough pain she went to therapy. And the therapist, realizing she had no idea how to read a situation like this or where to put the lines, offered this advice:
She told her when a man (or a woman or whoever) pulled away from her, she should immediately pull twice as far back as they had. She explained if the person was interested, this would bring them back very directly. And if they did not come back she’d already have some distance, never mind she would be spared the heartache and humiliation a person goes through when they finally realize they are chasing someone who is trying to get away.
This worked for my friend. It changed her life and I think it will help you too.
Good luck.
@Cancerwoman The reality is that no lady will turn out to be best for him. He will never be happy with anyone. This is an excuse the Virgo men use, maybe even to themselves, that makes them feel entitled to go through women. This cycle will continue to pull you away from your true self till perhaps one day you will not understand how you ended up in such a terrible place. I hope you can begin to respect yourself again at some point and dump him.
@CLMM
-woooow.
-you’re right and i know better. i’ll just have to cut the psychic chord[s] between us.
-i actually texted him last night that i would be the one doing the “virgo man disappearing act” this time, and since i cant beat them, i’ll join them by disappearing from their undeserving and nonchalant spheres [haha].
@CLMM
and i already know what to expect because the first virgo man [this last one-and
i do mean last-was the 2nd] bumped into me again spontaneaously, and pursued me even harder and he took me to dinner and i seen his chit starting up again so i left him at the dinner table and his
arse decided to jump in his car and chase me for minutes and then i finally lost him and he called me five times in a row. i was like im not going to let his chivalrous pursuit trick me-
IT DEFINITELY LOST VALUE! patted myself on the back and little did i know it was a VIRGO MAN THING!!!!!
@CLMM
i just read all 3 of your comments again and you aint speakin [lol] nothin but the TRUUUUTH!
it’s resonating with all of my chakras and putting me into trance as i read!!!
=O
lol im corny *giggle*
im so glad im over him. it’s literally like his energy cycle with me just ran out. it’s like, i dont even have any energy from him to feed off of to fall for it. he now just looks silly like when toto pulled the curtain back on the Wizard of Oz. [AHAHAHAH!!!!!]
@ I have something to say
“I am very happy that my virgo ex is no more a part of my life.No more virgo for me. I will prefer to die alone without a mate than to date a Virgo again.”
dont say that. see that’s what these uckers want us to think that we’ll die alone without them screw them and what they think. virgo men look like super heros, but see them with your third eye and not your clit like the rest of us “perfect”-pun intended-ladies have learned to do.
@Cancerwoman You seem to have some knowledge of energy if I can go by your reference to chakras. I would advise you that once you feel you are done with your Virgo to “Cut Cords” with him via Sword of the Blue Flame. There are those who will do this with you to rid any way that he has hooked into you, taking you further away from the truest core of your soul. There is nothing a Virgo man secetly loathes more than a woman empowered by the knowledge of her own self worth. It messes with their game plan and incites a spiteful jealousy since they are sadly devoid of a strong connection to anything above themselves. Warmest wishes to you.
@CLMM
-thanks you so much darling CLMM!
-yep a spirit touched me on my forehead at night.
I FORGOT! I actually DO have another vigro man story!! it came about in the middle of the two i’ve already mentioned.
i felt masculine energy approaching my sphere then suddenly a virgo guy made sent me a private youtube video of him performing a song that he seen me comment that i really liked. he did private skype and was playing all of these romantic songs i hadnt heard before that i absolutely loved. then when i took interest he disappeared!!! lol and i had to cut the chord because i felt him draining my energy from afar-
THEN HE TRIED TO GET ME BACK BY POSTING A POEM on his channel about how terrible of a man he is and he doesnt know any better lol-he also had mars in scorpio so a double whammy. wierd virgo men know how to link into to me with those psychic chords and swift me up into their energy in the astral before they actually begin pursuit of me.
2 of 3 of these virgo men’s energy actually approached me in the astral first energectically, so they always have they stuff well planned out. they really are serious about their games!!!
NOW i know to actually avoid it instead of be lured into the light like a moth!!!
i thought that feeling their energies [of the two virgo men who planned well in the astral] wrapped around me was a sign that they really were intending to adore, cherish and protect me and continue to feed me with this love. but let me tell you it was like working at mcdonalds, recieving anonymous flowers to a romantic date at an expensive restaurant by a secret admirer, being picked up by a limo, and midway through dinner after taking the first bites of our desserts being stripped of my fancy clothes he bought me, and booted out of the restaurant wearing rags worse than the clothes that i had on even before i was first pleasantly suprised by the seemingly romantic gesture of the anonymous flowers and invitation.
it seems like men get away with this and they get no karma at all they just get more p-ssy. it’s like they actually get rewarded by the cosmos for this behavior which is probably their motivation behind it all–they notice the perks.
let me take that back.. they dont get perks for this.
when he was giving me energy and i was giving it back and we were in sync, both of our vibrational rates raised and we were both attracting great opportunites and “luck” etc. then when the imbalance began and he pulled away energetically, yet i continued to give him energy even though he stopped giving me energy, BAD THINGS BEGAN hapeening to me because i was giving him energy that he had nothing to do with.
now, since im pulling away my luck is turning up again and his vibrational rate is going to shrink back to what it was before we vibed and he’s going to want to benefit from the natural high of our synergy again. he’s not smart enough spiritually yet to value our rare synergy and now neither of us will benefit smh. what kind of uckin man is that. shame on him.
he began to want to benefit from the perks of our synergy without contributing his stimulation–which is utterly impossible and has backlashing effects from the cosmos if an imbalance of give and take is allowed.
OOOH YA’LL!!
I KNEW IT I KNEW IT I KNEW IT I KNEW IT!!!
HOW did i know to look and see if IKE TURNER was a virgo-scorpio!!!!
his arse got MOON AND NEPTUNE IN VIRGO and
SUN, MERCURY, VENUS, CERES AND PALLAS in SCORPIO!!!
all the danm proof needed. lol
watch the tina tuner movie on youtube “what’s love got to do with it.”
remember how ike came back with flowers!!! to tina turner [lol]
and how he relentlessly pursued and courted her and chivalrously made her a star and laid the pipe on her etc….but pursued other women right in her face etc. as well! and drove another woman [before tina turner] crazy…i think she wanted to kill herself or she shot herself or something. she dropped all her kids off with him too… he left her to be with the “more perfect” tina turner whom of which he also dogged out.
then he left her with nothing and didnt give a chit, but they ALWAYS pursue AGAIN when a lady get a better life and become even more gorgoues than whatshe were when she was with them.
OH MY GOD GUYS!!!
YOU KNOW I LOVE YOU, BUT Virgo man loves me now [lol!!!]
yaaaaaaaay guys he’s really giving me everything now that I always wished he would ahahahaa! yay!
i want a fulfilling marriage, life and career with him.
okay guys. it’s official. There IS a positive polar range of Virgo men out there in the cosmos [lol!]
Is there any difference between August born virgo and sept born virgo male?? I’m seeing this Aug born virgo man 27th Aug he has moon in pisces and rising in gemini but I ‘m not sure whether he is like all the other scary virgos. He seems to be a nice guy. He respects elders. I was once involved with a scary sept born ((with his moon in virgo, mercury in virgo,rising scorpio.)) controllinng virgo man who was simply crazzy,selfish,negative,depressed,narrow-minded,rude and emotionally insensitive to others. Can any one give any insight about august born virgo males ?? btw I am a cancer if it helps.
okay update. it’s REALLY over this time.
i performed magick on the wrong person so that was absolutely my own error…
Okay. I read all of your posts and I have to say that most of you have had bad experiences with Virgo guys. But it doesn’t go for all of them. As you know, all men posses most of these traits so it has nothing to do with the fact that they are Virgos. Just for extra info, I am a pieces woman and have been seeing a GREAT Virgo guy for the past 5 months. This is not true for all Virgos.
Being a virgo myself(with a virgo rising) I’ve dated pisces, cancer and two virgo guys in my life and I’m sorry to say that these virgo guys are initially very sweet and charming but give them time they will show their true colours-cold , distant side will come out soon.
@Tina I wish you goodluck with your virgo guy , you need it.
Currently I am involved(for two years) with a Leo and he is the best lover any one can have. Personally I like fire signs alot and I find pisces men to be compulsive liers.
agree
my ex friend,pisces with venus and mars in aries,married a virgo,23september,moon sag and venus virgo 4 years ago after beeing engaged to his brother for two years.she trapped him in making him believe she looves him.made him leave the woman he used to be with for three years.she got a kid and than during one year made 3abortions on purpose.he doesn t know,he believes her whe she says ,oh ,i m so sad and cries.the kid was to tie him.she has someone else and u know,she wants a “free”body.he s still sacrificing to save what s left.nothing,she married him cause she was 29and still single.and for revenge of his brother ,like the family says.mother in law takes care of kid,coocking,cleaning,everything.she s never home,goes to workwhere the other one is and come back.she works even when she doesn t hav work?three days a weekis this the only virgo on earth living in hell?and i don t see here any of the piscean sensitivity,i see a pirhana and a bitch.
To virgoleorising!please read my post under”why Virgo men dump Pisces women”!i would like to hear some comments to this outrageous story,
And yeah forgot to mention – The virgo guys were nothing better. Full of deceit and pathological lying,self centered-ness. Virgo women are far better than Virgo men , atleast we know how to be loyal and loving. Virgo + Virgo was supposed to be a great match but sorry , nothing was great. Infact they cheated behind my back and lied every bit of it, misleaded me, emtionaly abused me and left me to come back again and again to make my life miserable.Thank God I got engaged with my Leo and everything is better now. I was actually searching on web “why virgo men come back to their ex” and this thread came to my notice. Wow I am really shocked to see that how many women are suffering in the hands of these Virgo guys. I hope there are good virgo guys over there to balance the bad ones. Sigghhh.
i have had similar situation with a september virgo. we work together and as soon as we met we hit it off. he got my number from the list at work and started texting me. first about work then about life. he involved me in his life activities and kept me up to date all the while showing much care and attention for 4 months. then they just stopped. long text turned into polite responses and he didnt initiate any communication. at work he still followed me around like a puppy and would not let me leave making up converstaion. i asked him what’s up and he said if his communication has changed it was unintentional. he went above and beyond to get my attention and then tries to tell me that he didnt notice when it changed?? well since he cut me off, i then cut him off because at work he still tried to get all my attention. i just gave polite responses and dropped the conversation, although i wanted it to be the same. its been a few weeks and even with my distance he still tries to tell me about his life and follow me around. but i leave him at the door. it is what people are saying.. when you start giving in, even though i never said anything my actions were, they back away. they have an off/on switch. why he just turned it off is a mystery that i will not ever ask. but like others i felt a loss, they really make you feel like your on top but at the end there is no substance behind it and i feel a big loss…and i work with him so i have to always put the front that i dont care when in reality i care alot..
smiling and smiling when i read this blog..just happened to me a very nice virgo man pulled back exactly after 3 months. why it’s always been set up for 3 months…and just left him yesterday, coz cannot handle that on off situation that he created. we, woman, need to respect ourselves, if not, who else? right? some lies caught unexpectedly..see how’s goes now..
note : met this guy online, with a promise to visit me in my hometown, but he went or can i say run/back to his shell, i guess. :0…still not want to believe astrology..but it’s truly happened…:) :)….
Hi All,
I need some help, my ex virgo broke up with me in October and we both moved out in November. He seemed to never be able to just have silly arguments and would get in such a temper. He wanted to stay friends and said that he hated how he got so angry towards me. We met as strangers and rushed into living together. So back to the friends stage. He told me he wants me to find myself again and for us to build a friendship and we may well work out. He helped me find a place and was very supportive. Since we’ve lived apart I’ve never chased him or bothered him but he always gets in contact. His paid for us to have meals out and even crashed at mine and invited me to his. The other day he asked if I fancied going to see a show and get some food at a nice place he knows in London. It feels as if we’re dating but he did say friendship so I don’t want to be fooled. At new year I saw he has someone from his work who texts him (a girl) and his never mentioned her name. I’m worried all what he has said is lies and that I’m just a back up if he don’t meet better. He has girl mates that text so that doesn’t bother me but I get the feeling this girl from work might like him.
So I got home New Year’s Day and just texted saying I’m home. See you around. He questioned the shortness but I didn’t reply. Today he texted early this morning again wishing me luck with something so I replied thanks I’m fine. Keeping it short. He the very short messages have I done something?? I didn’t reply. He then tried calling but I couldn’t face it. Later I replied changing the subject. He replied and I sent another two word answer. He tried calling but I couldn’t answer so once I was home I was just about to ring him and he called again. He asked how my day went and then why I was being so short and that its not like me. I just said no reason. He then made out that new year was boring even though we all had a laugh so I’m guessing that was a dig to try and hurt me. He said he had to go back to work so I just said ok bye and hung up.
I do love him and I think a lot of him but I just don’t know if his stringing me along, texting this other girl or if his been trueful when he says we may work out if we just start building our friendship like we didn’t do at the start.
Any help would be great. Thanks 🙂
I have to say that reading all these posts it gives me some comfort to know I’m the only one who has been broken by a Virgo man..
My Virgo man was the only man I ever loved we met when I was 27 and we were together for 6 years ..
He was so loving affectionate I really believed that he was the one.
But he was very jealous and possessive and always accusing me of cheating ..in the end he called and said he thought I was cheating and county do it anymore and I never heard from him again..
I never got over him 10 years and I always though of him and never could get close to any one else ..
10 years later he got in touch told me I was the life of his life and he always wanted to come back and say sorry for everything..
Everything was wonderful and I was so happy then within a few months the old behaviour came back and the accusations got more and more ..
He was so insecure and over the last three years he was emotionally abusive ..but I put up with it because I loved him . They want to control and once they see how much you need them they leave you ..
Again a few weeks ago after three years together he texted saying I was a cheat .. I was 100% loyal to this man and never ever have him reason to think otherwise .
Then he ignored my calls refused to answer and I haven’t heard from him since that was three weeks ago .
I’m in absolute pieces he was like Jekyll and Hyde one minute professing undying love the next saying the most cruel and hurtful things to you ..
He broke my heart twice and all I did was love him .. AND AS MUCH AS I WANT TO HATE HIM I CAN’T I LOVE HIM SO MUCH AND I MISS HIM I JUST CAN’T GET MY HEAD AROUND IT THAT SOMEONE COULD TREAT YOU THIS WAY ..
Virgo’s are modest and shy:
This year I’ve figured out the Guy I’m in love ( 7 years )with is a Virgo so I did research, I wanted to know why he felt the same but distance himself and emotions, to make it clear Virgo men are not very emotional nor romantic it takes time and no matter how slow you think the relationship is going showing affection to a Virgo man scares him off and Virgo men are known for being nervous, also Virgo men are very demanding so let him take his time, and have a little power so he can gain the strength to express his feelings to you ( Virgo men hate feeling threaten ), after all when the relationship is solid you won’t regret the wait, Virgo men don’t like conversations that go no where meaning have a conversation that you can either agree or disagree no matter which side he’ll appreciate your convos, I will recommend anyone to research their panthers zodiac sigh its a lot of help.
Pisces love Virgo – opposites attract
This blog is awesome! I totally agree with all of you. Its amazing how we all think we’ve found that one supreme Virgo male that is the chief womaniser…i believe I found one as well.He has gotten so masterful at his tactics now it amazing!! He openly admits to me about plentiful cheating on his girlfriend who he keeps as a possession because she is physically perfect. All the while sleeping with whores and making girls fall for him. He is so masterful at what he does, if I didn’t spend the last 10 years of my life romanticising about him and finally seeing the light, I would not be able to resist his actions. I finally could see how he perfectly crafted every single sentence and action and scene to get the desired impact out of the woman. We are just objects, not even that…we might as well not even have faces!
I’ve totally had enough with Virgo men. Yes I agree they are ONLY GOOD FOR SEX!!! and Damn..they are good.
I think it would be a good idea for the Pisces woman evolved to become masterful at Virgo men! Be the only sign that knows how to protect themselves from them! See through everything they do. Of course that won’t happen until Pisces woman love them first and learn from experience possibly from a few virgo men lol.
An evolved Pisces can sense and foresee the actions and changes of these men. With such gift, this pisces address issues straightup with my virgo guy and lets him know in no uncertain terms that my expectations are xyz and I will not tolerate xyz. My virgo guy knows where im heading and he can either chose to join me or leave, either way no regrets or tears. Presently were are getting to know each other and it is MOSTLY great.
So maybe some of you can help me sort this out. I was in a committed relationship with the Virgo man for almost 5 years, I am a Pieces. At first he was perfect, and I fell for him hard. He was loving and always wanted to make me smile. He would bring me flowers all the time for no reason at all, and would tell me all the time he wanted to marry me. He was at the time we got together my room mate, so we lived together the whole 5 years. The last year of our relationship it was like I was living with someone different though, he got down right mean. He would tell me how stupid I was all the time and call me names, I could never do anything right in his eyes. He started telling me all the time he was going to leave, but never go anywhere. Being a Pieces girl all of this hurt me very deeply! Finally fed up I would tell him to go every time he said it out of frustration. One night he came to me, and asked me if we could just break up. I was pissed and said just go! The next few days I had made arrangements to go stay with friends in TN from NY. Before I left he had tried to talk to me a few time, but I was just so hurt by everything, and pissed off I couldn’t. I left for TN and was there about a week, and realized I missed him terribly! I wrote him a message on FB, cause I had no other was to get in touch with him, but just couldn’t push send. I walked away from my computer, and my friend did it when I wasn’t looking. Long story short everything was going good with me and him, and I thought we would be okay, that was untill I found out he was already dating another girl. He denied this of course but I ended up calling the girl and asking her, she told me it was true. He still to this day will not admit he was with this girl. This next part is gonna make you think I deserve all of this for being so stupid, but I was so hurt and jealous I ended up coming back to NY. We sat down and talked and he said that we needed to work on our friendship, cause we lost it somewhere along the way. He stopped seeing this girl as soon as I came home, and I really thought we would be good. We have seen each other, and hung out everyday since I have been home. Well last week he was drinking a bit, and ended up going to the bar with this girl I thought was a friend. She was hitting on him, and he was begging her to come home with him. In the end she didn’t go, but I lost it with both of them. I left him a message saying I was sick of the games and I wasn’t chasing him anymore, that I loved him but he was either gonna be with me or leave me alone. It’s been 2 months since I got home. He messaged me back some bs, but I didn’t answer it I was pretty clear what I wanted. By the end of that night he had called me telling me he wasn’t doing anything with this girl and I was just over reacting. The next day he called me and he had been with his friend celebrating his friends birthday so he was a bit tippsey. He asked if I could take him to get some food, and watch Lost with him. So I gave in, I do so love him in the end, and he really is my best friend. I picked him up, we were on our way, he looks at me and says like it just hit him “You really do love me don’t you”. I looked at him like he was nuts, and said yes I do love you. So he says I love you too, now stop it. then he tells me I’m the only girl he is thinking about and kisses me, and tells me I’m the only girl he is thinking about. Not 5 min later he says “I don’t want you to think that kiss means you own me in anyway”. Then he tells me he don’t know what hes doing and may be leaving the area for a job, but says 2 different states. So this is where I am at do you guys have anything???
Virgoleorising !didn t hear about you again!what s new?
I will read all of these posts, and I realized that time has passed on most of them, but alot of the complaints seem to repeat themselves about virgo men. I am a virgo female/pisces moon and I usually think before I feel whereas pisces tend to feel first. Virgos are not jerks, but they are very discriminating. They keep their feelings so secure and will only display them when they find the “right” partner. They dn’t like risking their heart. Two things: either you are not chemically compatible with them (you have different minds sets) or they have a personality disorder like narcissism or psychopathy. Any sign can have a mental illnessthat will cause alot of pain to you.
One more thing people, please check your moon sign and his. That’s probably how you’re connecting with your virgo, not through the sun sign alone. Narcissists and psychopaths will smell out kind generous people to take advantage of them – these people come in all signs, shapes and sizes.
I too am a Pisces girl that met a Virgo and fell hard for him. In the beginning he was so sweet and made me feel that he was very much in to me. Well right around three months later after I had started to feel secure in our relationship, I made the mistake of telling him that I liked him very much. His response was that I was too emotional and needed to learn how to control my emotions. It was at this point that he decided to vanish out of my life, would not answer my calls, or text me back. Ladies the virgo man is one twisted, insecure, animal. I am not even sure that they really like women. They are way too feminine themselves. They also have a dark side that is scary. There is a website called “dark side of the virgo man” that makes me question if this is the reason they treat women so badly. I have sworn them off.
I too am a Pisces girl that met a Virgo and fell hard for him. In the beginning he was so sweet and made me feel that he was very much in to me. Well right around three months later after I had started to feel secure in our relationship, I made the mistake of telling him that I liked him very much. His response was that I was too emotional and needed to learn how to control my emotions. It was at this point that he decided to vanish out of my life, would not answer my calls, or text me back. Ladies the virgo man is one twisted, insecure, animal. I am not even sure that they really like women. They are way too feminine themselves.
I too am a Pisces girl that met a Virgo and fell hard for him. In the beginning he was so sweet and made me feel that he was very much in to me. Well right around three months later after I had started to feel secure in our relationship, I made the mistake of telling him that I liked him very much. His response was that I was too emotional and needed to learn how to control my emotions. It was at this point that he decided to vanish out of my life, would not answer my calls, or text me back. Ladies the virgo man is one twisted, insecure, animal. I mean, who doesn’t want to be loved ?
People often think of love as a romantic, warm, fuzzy feeling but that feeling, especially as it grows deeper, biologically compels people into marriage, children, and a slew of other long-term obligations like debt, mortgage, shared resources, illness, etc. Not everybody is ready for that. Not even under the best of circumstances.
I think Virgo, being the perfectionist it is, is well aware of the consequences of love and sometimes backs away to make sure they’re 150% ready for that.
Observant and well stated. Thank you. 🙂
STAY AWAY FROM VIRGO MAN!!!! seriously. I met a Virgo man and I am Pisces woman. I confronted him (mind you I never confront any man). I am a very bold, confident, vibrant woman yet I can be very shy and timid in certain settings but u will never know. Most men seem to be intimidated by me…. I’m educated, headstrong, confident, independent (all of which this Virgo man did not like) ok so Anyways I noticed him from across the room so I sparked a conversation. It went completely wrong in a funny way but we ended up exchanging numbers. The very next day he called me early in the morning to ask me was I awake? “Did I wake u too early? If so I apologize” *this caught my attention*
okay so For the first couple of months, we went on a few dates and he was romantic, charming, the modern day gentleman. We would talk for hours, he would be really sensitive etc and in a way it became annoying. But he was a good catch so I kept him near. He opened doors, payed for meals, seemed intelligent even went so far as saying he’s been celibate for years on end (waiting for the perfect woman) etc. now mind you, im a wholesome woman and a late bloomer so my innocence shows…. He must have noticed this and thought he could tell me what I wanted to hear. Okay so anyways, on the second date, his card declined and he played it cool. This was a sign…… All in all, He pulled out cash and payed. I offered to pay each time we went on dates but he insisted. He did weird stuff on the date like turn his phone face down and was very negative. He threw insulting shots at me multiple times and when I jokingly insulted him, he would throw a fit. I’d just be laughing all along. Now this is where it gets juicy… Time goes on and me being me, I’m more so not into displaying too much emotion or trusting my emotions but using my intuition and pure logic. So for one, I noted everything. #1he was in the military.. He told me he was in college for one major at first and then I waited about a week or so and asked again and he told me another major that was the total opposite. Lol…. Now If he’s this good of a man why does he seem so perfect but doesn’t have kids or a wife? Clue #2, I would test him by asking questions and asking them again later to see how long he would lie. Did he have kids? Where is he from? Etc.. He also asked me questions but I never gave him the 411 because I sensed he was a liar. I played his game with him. #3 on our first date he had a really nice car. I actually bought the nice car that I have so I was impressed. (Not trying to brag I’m trying to prove a point) .. Okay now the next date, he has a different car but it is beat up. It’s a hand me down. I didn’t care because I’m not a material girl but I do like the finer things so I work hard for everything I have….
So I question him as to why did he change cars. He says the other was a rental and that his current one was in the shop – *rolls eyes* .. Moving along. Now I graduated college so I have an education. However I decided to pursue another career in which I travel a lot so he becomes aware of this. As soon as i told him the changes I would be making, I made them quickly. I’m a woman of action. He is not. He pretends to be. So I moved and that’s when all hell broke loose. He constantly brought up me meeting new men, he would play mind games that I’d just play right back and he would even go so far as trying to pick fights and make me seem like I was crazy when j called him out on it When in all actuality I was RIGHT ON TO HIS GAMES LOL… OMG im not done. So after we get into an argument for the 30th time, I tell him off and then I later realize that I want revenge. So I get it. I contact him and let him know that I would like to rekindle and we shall see what happens next. I’m giving him a taste of his own medicine and I won’t stop until then. (I won’t do anything crazy but I am going to get him where it hurts because I think he thinks it’s a game to just play with women)…. Like how crooked can u be?? U do this for fun?? I don’t get chosen. I choose and for all the women out there, just know a Virgo man will chew u up and spit u out but when he’s chewing u, make sure ur the one who makes him throw up.
All in all, I start to do all the things I didn’t do before even alter some things in my personality to please him. (This is what he thinks) now don’t get me wrong.. I did my research on him. He lied and said he doesn’t have kids, he has kids. He lied and said he’s single, he is not single. He lied about school, he’s never been to college. He lied about deaths in his family!!! For empathy? Omg. He even lied about being celibate, he’s a sex addict. He lied about everything possible and didn’t know that while he continued lying I was taken note. Don’t be a fool ladies please. Virgo men are mental. He also didn’t have any friends….. Which is a big red flag in most cases. Whenever we talked he was always alone.
Just stay away From Virgo men. They are stalkers, liars and manipulators and if you are not meticulous or wise enough to see through his “facade” you will perish at the end.