Dear Elsa, I am in a relationship with a Pisces man. I am a self confessed commitment-phobe, but I am very, very conscious that “enough is enough”. I am tired of hurting others and myself. I want to commit and have a meaningful relationship. I want to know how I can relax and achieve this. […]
Dear Elsa, I have been dating someone for about 3 years. He and I are both divorced. He and I are both divorced. He and his ex-wife were swingers. When we got together, we agreed this wasn’t for us. However, he continues to have contact with his “previous friends” and this really bothers me. He
Dear Elsa, I got married about 8 months ago, and instantly we fell into a domestication that makes me feel trapped and angry. I am unaware of how to change the problem. I imagine myself expressing these concerns to my husband and asking for more of an open like relationship where we decide what we
I was talking to my Pisces pal again today. She got off to a bad start this morning, but by early evening she’d gotten some good news. “All right!” I said. “You got some water in your pool, girl!” “Yep.” “About a foot, anyway. You have water up to your knees.” I laughed. “Not so
Now speaking of confusion… I met my editor, HQ, in 2002. He had been reading my original blog for about a year and he contacted me about putting a book together. That first phone call, I really went off on him. I have that Mars Mercury conjunction and I just started swearing and yelling. HQ
I was on the phone with a Pisces pal who was highly cranky. “I hate being in a mood,” she said, sounding snitty. “I guess everybody does. No one like being in a mood.” “Yeah, they don’t.” “I don’t know what happened to me,” she said. She was so happy a few days ago. “I
My friend, Stevie is a Sagittarius. She met this gal who lives in China, Sophie, who is also Sagittarius just as Jupiter went into their sign. That’s Sophie in the picture, wearing a scarf Stevie made for her. So Sophie (this is her blog) and Stevie have become very close in spite of the language
Dear Elsa, The post about the 19 year old who fears sexual intimacy really hits home. I’m 23 and have the same panic-like behavior. I’ve held off from having sex despite a strong desire and need for it, due to a very strict upbringing. And not being able to have an outlet for this sexuality
