Dear Elsa, I’ve spent my whole life trying to connect to myself and other people. I feel raw and needy but I don’t think anyone can help me. I carry with me, since early childhood, an aloneness that I’ve only heard described by people going through the dark night of the soul and suffering intense […]
Dear Elsa, I try so hard to make friends, but get rejected constantly. I try to do everything right: I listen, I respond to what I listen to, I ask follow up questions. For some reason, people don’t respond positively to me. I’m a nice person and think I would be a good friend to
Hi Elsa- My life is in a rut. I have no motivation to work on my music and art. I am bored and lonely. My job is boring and dead end. Everything is BLAH!!! I can’t stand it, but at the same time… I don’t do anything about it. What gives? I feel like I
Dear Elsa, I am involved with a married man who has children. I believe that he loves me, and I certainly love him. This is a deep and significant connection unrivaled by my previous relationships. That said, as a result of this relationship both of us have lost weight, and our performances in our respective professions have also
Dear Elsa, I don’t believe I have psychic abilities. However, I tend to absorb vibrations and energies from people and the external world. These energies in turn bottle up in me, and I take these energies on as my own. One minute I’m as nice as pie, the next an emotional roller coaster who can’t
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Dear Elsa, I seem to fall into the same patterns in relationships. If I’m not getting the physical, verbal and emotional signals that I need, I automatically assume something is wrong. It builds and builds until I force the issue. My view tends to become black and white. When something occurs that is beyond my
Dear Elsa, Well, where do I start? My friend has been dating this guy and I hate the way he treats her. I don’t know what to tell her, since she’s too “in love” with him. He disrespects her, he’s constantly making her say sorry for nothing, and he’s so controlling over her. I just
