Elsa,
It seems as though I have had nothing but bad luck. Every investment I have made is either a loser or break-even. Even my relationships are neither stable or long lasting.
What’s the deal? I feel as though I’m using sound judgment. Will things change… or is this as good as it gets?
Confused Aries Ram
Dear Confused,
In astrology, love and money go hand in hand as they are both Venus-ruled. Consequently, Venus in a chart (it’s sign, it’s house and it’s aspects) describe a person’s financial and relationship situation. So lets talk about yours.
You have Venus in Pisces in the twelfth house, which is basically Venus in Pisces squared. Why? Because the twelfth house is the Pisces house, so you’ve basically got a theme repeated – or what astrologer Stephen Arroyo calls, a “double whammy”.
So how does Venus in Pisces act? Well, it’s not stable, that’s for sure. Pisces energy is like the tide. It comes in, but don’t try to nail it down or anything, because that’s not how it works.
Personal to you, this means your love and your money is in constant flux. So if you are looking for love you can pin down, well you’re not going to get it. Leave that to the Venus Saturn people and believe me, you don’t need to envy them. Ever heard of someone in a crappy relationship for thirty years? Those people could use a little flux, huh?
So anyway…there are some things you can do. You can work to avoid the low expression of Pisces – for example, deluding yourself. The guy you met four minutes ago who says he is your soul mate? Maybe not. The guy with the get rich scheme… you need not lift a finger, and you’ll become a millionaire in just a few short months? Probably not.
You say you think you are using sound judgment and it’s not that I don’t believe you. I just think this bears repeating. You must discriminate at all times and if you can, get yourself a Virgo to help. Why?
Because Virgo opposes Pisces and has skills that Pisces needs to develop. Like discrimination. So you meet a man and you ask your Virgo pal.. ‘He’s got two legs, two arms, a head on his shoulders… er, right?”
And if the Virgo says “all clear”, then it probably is. After awhile, you will learn to do this for yourself, but get the big picture here which is this:
You’re a Ram all right. In fact, you have Mars conjunct your Aries Sun, another double whammy. That is A LOT of raw male energy. But why are you confused? Well, besides Venus, you have Chiron, Saturn, Mercury and your ascendant all in Pisces (known to be confused).
So this is my other advice: Go read everything you can about Pisces because you are one. You’re gonna flip.
Good luck.
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Hi. I was socked to read this because I’m Aries(Sun) with Venus in Pisces in 12th house. My life always seems to be blessed with everything although there are ups and downs. No matter what happens, I always believe that no lucks and no unlucks will last and that I can always turn things around for better with positive attitude. (I was born in Japan.)Thank you for reading my thoughts.
Well written
I’m an Aries born on the 8th of April. It seems all my life I’ve had nothing but bad luck. It seems like every corner I turn I get slapped in the face. Please help me.
I came across this o it of desperation. I am an Aries born on the 4th of April and my venus is also in Pisces. I really feel unlucky especially in love because every guy I meet rejects me and decides how “I am not the one”. It hurts so much already but I still want to be in love and in a relationship. B it seems harder for me. Why is that?
Welcome, Ramwithaheart. I’m sorry you’ve suffered so much rejection. It’s hard to say what the core problem might be without looking at your chart. I hope this changes for you!