Dear Elsa, My last serious relationship grew out of a friendship. After two years, we suddenly realized we were in love with each other. This relationship ended abruptly after just eight months, when he decided it had gotten too serious. About a year later, I started dating another man. We’ve only been dating for […]
Commitment-phobics and more
It’s been a long time since we talked about cheating; which in itself is interesting as it used to come up a lot. I’m the one driving here, so I guess it’s my fault. In whatever case, I want to bring it up today for a fresh look. I’m prompted in part by my recent
I was watching a program where a gal in her mid-twenties said she chose a path for her life that she thought would allow her to escape an oppressive boss. It didn’t get her very far. The implication was that she’d have been better off had she put up with the difficulty she tried to
As life unfolds, circa 2023, things that no one could have expected have come to be. We’ve have various events, leading us to the new normal, the newer normal, the newest normal or whatever normal comes next. Suffice to say, most are seeing things they never imagined and many are rather shocked at how they’ve
Dating, dating, dating, dating and dating and dating… have you gotten anywhere yet? Are you a commitment-phobic? How does this reveal itself in your chart?
I’m acquainted with a man in his fifties; he does not want to marry again. He’s been dating a gal for a couple of years. They’re exclusive. The man has been candid with the woman from day one. He does not want to get married, period. She’s continued to see him by her own free
Hey Elsa! My boyfriend and I have dated on and off for the past nine months, we’ve been very comfy and I was for the first time, completely ready for nesting and maybe someday, babies. The sex is great, the energy calm, but he seems so skittish about the future. He finally told me he