Patterns in relationship
Hello Elsa, I’m a 45 year old single woman who started dating a Scorpio male about three months ago. We get along well, but I am wondering if ultimately he may be too serious and reserved for me – or if I am actually afraid of commitment. I can’t seem to enjoy the moment as […]
Dear Elsa, I have just ended a 5 year on-again off-again relationship. My heart is healing…slowly. I have been chatting with a young man from Morocco who hopes for us to meet, marry, and live together until we die. I don’t know whether to take this young man seriously, or keep my options open and
Dear Elsa, I was wondering if you had any advice on how to deal with my Virgo ex-boyfriend. He was my first serious relationship, and keeps coming in and out of my life. I met him 4 years ago and we dated for one intense month. Unfortunately, he let me give him my virginity before
Dear Elsa, In April, I began a relationship with a man. He was actually my first crush in grade school, and I even had a baby doll named after him. But since then, we had not been factors in each other’s lives at all. I got married to a man in the Army and our
Dear Elsa, I am in love very deeply with my best friend. We have an intense connection; he reads my very thoughts in detail. He is unlike no one else I have ever known; his every movement fascinates me. My feelings have not waned for him in the slightest since I’ve known him, despite him
“He’s stuck to you like mistletoe to oak.” That’s what my pal at the gym, Denis from Cameroon said today regarding, “The Salesman”. “What?” Denis twisted himself up. “You know how mistletoe attaches to oak? Once it does, it won’t let go.” I got a mind picture. “Yeah. Well I’ve noticed that and I’m glad
Dear Elsa, I seem to have a paradoxical attitude about relationships. One the one hand, I’d really love to have a long-term serious relationship that could lead to marriage. But then again, I’m deathly afraid of any serious relationship turning into a situation where I’m so bored and disappointed with the other person I can’t
