Patterns in relationship
“She sure sold me cheap,” I said to a friend when I learned a gal I was acquainted with had betrayed me. “Why do you think that is? Is she stupid?” I asked if she were stupid because this happens all the time. People betray me frequently. In fact is happens so routinely I don’t […]
Dear Elsa, I’ve fallen madly in love with a Pisces six years older than me, but with a lot more experience. The real bad thing is that we’ve become close friends and confident enough for him to tell me everything about his past, present and future girlfriends. I sometimes get quite jealous but always try
Dear Elsa, Ten years ago I met a man who I fell in love with. We had an amazing rapport. Electric. Six months after we met, I moved out of the country… and for the next 3 years we phoned each other and wrote regularly. We were both in relationships so it was always an
Dear Elsa, I have known a guy for five years. We met online and instantly became friends. Because I was married, I stopped talking to him after 2 years when I had more feelings than I should. About 6 months ago my husband and I finally spilt after finding that he had been cheating on
Dear Elsa, I am pretty sure I have a problem. I snoop through my boyfriend’s computer almost every day! I know he looks at porn, he has a TON saved on his computer in many folders. We’ve been together for 18 months and I’ve hated it the whole time. He says he collects it, and
Dear Elsa, I have a very big problem with my best girlfriend of over a decade. To be blunt, the problem is her meanness. She is a person who, on a regular basis, says extremely nasty and hurtful things to me and the rest of our mutual friends. I don’t mean to make her sound
Dear Elsa, I’m an Aquarian man, and I recently was dumped long distance (over email) by my Aries gal. There were a lot of factors against us – she recently graduated from Boot Camp after joining the Navy (which I supported) for one. However, everything seemed to be going great, I was making plans for
Dear Elsa, I just ended a two year relationship because I started to have feelings for my best friend. He has liked me for some time now and I couldn’t see it and thought we were better as friends. Needless to say when I recently broke up with my boyfriend, my best friend and I
