There are people I feel I could never be honest with. I’m not talking about clients. I’m talking to people, in life, to whom I could never, ever, say what I think. I would never try to clear the air; never try to explain something; never confront or challenge them. These are the “perfectly balanced” […]
Life is tricky. One of the main reasons it’s so tricky is a good number of people are liars. I’m not talking about telling someone their pie is great after swallowing an unsatisfying bite. I’m talking about lying liars who knowingly and willingly lie in order to cause harm. Maybe I’m also talking about liars
Today my husband learned of some lies someone told on him a few years ago. He also found out the lies were believed though they seem outrageous to me. Anyone with common sense should have been able to see through them. A few days ago I was talking to a friend about some vicious lies
A client asked me if I thought a man she was dating was lying to her. While I knew it was possible the man was lying to her, I didn’t think it was probable. “Let’s just say, this is not the chart of someone who is routinely deceptive…” Anyone can lie, of course. But I
NotMyCircus started a thread in the forum, Stupid Is The New Normal. It’s a great title, but it’s also a supremely worthy topic. I jumped right in with this: “I see this too but I see it across all generations… and I see it in myself as well. We’re set up at the moment to
Neptune is challenge to work with. Once you delude yourself (and others), it’s really hard to work way out. I have a story to illustrate what I mean. With Saturn and Pluto in my 12th house, I’ve really withdrawn from the public to a large extent. I became uncomfortable as part of the fabric of society.
I saw a headline claiming that 1 in 4 people, lie about their finances when dating. This comes as no surprise. People don’t want to be alone. It’s very tempting to conceal things that are unfavorable. I’ve done this myself and copped to it, back when I was writing about “landsharks” in the zodiac. I
Dear Elsa, I recently had a short-lived relationship with a Leo. It ended because I discovered that he hadn’t been altogether truthful about his involvements with other women. While I’m glad that I found out before I got too involved, it also made me realize that this isn’t the first time that this has happened!
