Patterns in relationship
Elsa, I was dumped three months ago by an Aquarian comedian who needed to “spend more time writing,” and felt he was unable to give me the attention our relationship deserved. I was head over heels for him and basically was a doormat in our relationship – although he denies he ever treated me as […]
I have Saturn transiting my 7th house which means I am learning about how I relate to others. And I am in contact with three men, past and present loves and Scott in particular has marveled and made me aware of how the relationships in no way resemble each other. For example, Scott gets a
Dear Elsa, I met a lovely Gemini man (Gemini moon/Scorpio Rising) in February. We have been dating ever since and are in love, if not smitten! I’ve never experienced anything like this before and it’s HEAVENLY! My concern is that he feels the need to be financially stable before entering into a relationship. I don’t
Dear Elsa, I am engaged to a Leo man. He’s fantastic to me, but he has a very bad temper. Sometimes he says he doesn’t love me, but afterwards he says he didn’t mean it! I love him with all my heart, but I’m a very jealous girl and he says my jealousy is killing
Hi Elsa, I had been with my daughter’s father for two years and a half, when he decided to cheat on me and kick me and my daughter out of our apartment. That was back in June. I left and stayed with my sister until I found a job and an apartment, we’ve (my daughter
Dear ElsaElsa! I just love your blog! I like your insightfulness and your straightforwardness: no beating about the bush! Your posting on the mars-scorpio-sex-OCD-connection touched me! A wonderful example of how directness and empathy can go hand-in-hand, indeed! I am an Aries with Scorpio rising myself, so I do relate to this urge to” express
Hello Elsa, I have never really been good at maintaining platonic friendships or finding and maintaining romantic relationships. Part of me longs deeply for closeness and intimacy. The other part seems to push people away when they get too close. Part of me aches for touch. But another part of me feels very anxious when
Hi Elsa, I have been torn as to whether or not to continue communicating with my ex-fiance. I could either have a “no contact” stance or to encourage an open dialogue and actually encourage him to call me. I hope you can help me make the right decision. It has been about 4 years since
