“Don’t volunteer me,” I said. “I gave my very best and got trounced on. I won’t be giving any more. I won’t go through that again. He/She has no currency with me anymore so don’t even ask, I’m not going to do it…” If you’re a Pisces or have Venus in Pisces or Neptune in […]
Elsa, You’ve written quite a bit about your Neptune at the midheaven. What about Neptune on the Descendant? I know the Savior/look for a Savior would be part of it. I’ve played both. But, lately I get to thinking that with Neptune on the Descendant I am one of those people who absorbs other people’s
Neptune is challenge to work with. Once you delude yourself (and others), it’s really hard to work way out. I have a story to illustrate what I mean. With Saturn and Pluto in my 12th house, I’ve really withdrawn from the public to a large extent. I became uncomfortable as part of the fabric of society.
I have Venus in aspect to Neptune. I’ve written about the sensitivity to music and the deception which is perpetrated by the Venus Neptune person. As often as they are preyed upon, they’re usually more comfortable in the victim role then they are owning their side of things. Assuming they can see their side of things!
Unrequited love is a fairly common story. What’s unusual is that it seems to dog men and women fairly equally. There not many things that fit this bill. As far as a marker in a chart goes, pining is a Neptune phenomena. Neptune tied up with Venus in any form, would be the thing to
Elsa’s blog post about Scapegoating got me thinking. One of the most common things I am asked about is the pattern of boundary issues and enmeshment. Enmeshment is when you stop being able to figure out where you end and your partner begins. It can feel wonderful at first, because you’ve merged completely with another
I have a client who is a beautiful woman, and that’s not all she’s going for her. She’s demanding in love, however, she has Venus in the 12th house and when she does fall for someone, she falls completely. As an example, she was once mixed up with a man who said he would only
Hi Elsa, I am SO confused about a recent break-up. I’ve never been so WOWED by a guy right from the start. Not necessarily by his looks – although I started thinking he was really good looking after a date or two. But from our very first emails and dates, I just had such a
