I was talking to my husband about an old love of mine… “I’ve been thinking about him lately and wondering what he came up with. Do you suppose he told himself a story about how awful I am? Or do you think he sees it in another light?” “He’s probably told himself a story,” he […]
Dear Elsa, How and what do you work on within and without yourself to finally be in a place to recognize, cherish and honor a true love? Starry-Eyed and Full I think the capacity one has to love another in completely contingent on their capacity to love themselves. For example, if I can look in
“Just what do you mean when you say, project their shadow?” my husband asked. “Exactly what do you mean by that?” “Well take these women, they have a falling out with their man. And they say blah, blah, blah he did all this crap to me. He’s this rotten guy.” “Yeah, they do that.” “Right.
“Be as you are, as you see as I am I am.” –James Taylor Every few years or so I buy an exceptionally embarrassing (to me) self-help book, the type of book where I’d likely set myself on fire before I’d confidently display it on my bookshelf. The other day I was rearranging my books,
Hi Elsa, I continue to have difficulty with love relationships. I am a very independent person, but the second I am seeing someone I really care about, I try my best to destroy it. I am usually successful at destroying it. I don’t want to just be by myself. I have been seriously working on
Recently we’ve been talking about attraction and repulsion and also the rising sign, a person’s first handshake or their veneer as I say. I have been talking for 20 years about the problems I have on this front as my appearance is somewhat incongruous with my actual personality. Basically, I have dimples which attract people
It’s been interesting watching the solider land here. People have their natures and within 24 hours I could see he was plotting his empire and his various operations and we have had a big fight about this. At one point he wanted me to plan with him. This was his move cross country specifically and
The other thing that doesn’t change in my experience, is the way people relate. They synastry is the synastry and although you can grow the synastry is still the synastry. The soldier and I are one example. We conjure the same feelings in each other as we did when we were kids but he is
