MagicZara said
What's up with that? Scorpio has to protect themselves, that's what's up with that. They want to know if they can trust you.It can be unnerving, for sure. Not everyone can handle the intensity. But every sign has something like this that could be called annoying.
https://elsaelsa.com/astrology/2011/11/27/dating-scorpio-and-trust/
Very very true! True about the annoying aspects every sign too!
Sorry...
My Scorp stellium (
) don't like superficial, masks, defense mechanisms, mind games, hidden motives or projections of what people want (or manipulate) me to see. I want to see ALL of that person, good and bad. I want to see the entire soul. I want to get the bottom of everything and discover who you really are.
I just don't trust things at face value, need to do research to be sure. It's addicting because the more I probe, the more I find out.
Example: So this person makes it obvious that they want to be seen as a person to be respected, admired, and praised. My scorp senses instantly calls bullshit. Why work so hard to make people behave a certain way? What is this person hiding? So I do a little research (the beauty of the internet) and find old court docs where he was a convicted sexual harasser prior to becoming a sex offender who has had sexual misconduct with a minor. The awesome day I told that creeper I PROBED him good, LOL!!! CREEPERS are scared shitless of me and that's how I prefer it.
Scorps aren't all bad, that's why there are sexy cops and detectives in this world that protect you from REAL creepers 
They probe only for the sake of the truth, nothing else.
I just think it's smart to accept that when you're involved with a Scorpio, there is a high probability that they will act like a Scorpio.
I'm a prober. The closer you are to me, the more I'll probe... I'm the worst with my husband. Normally, I can control the probing, If I sense someone doesn't want to be probed, I don't. I probe if I can see or sense emotional conflict... I want to help, I ask questions as a way to help let it out, to be there. Like I said before, it's the hardest to control with my husband, with those that I am the most emotionally invested in. I want to know and I want to help, I don't like secrets. However, it's slowly been sinking in that sometimes I just need to let it go and let him be... to detach.
Roshambo said
Are you being circled by one? Being peppered with personal questions?
Been there a few times. The thing is having pluto scorpio in 1st house, I don't readily reveal too much of myself, so it sometimes caused a bit struggle between me and the other person. They would push and I would refuse to give in until they give up. LOL. Sometimes I don't mind though.