Have you ever noticed some people manage to avoid responsibility for everything while others are hyper-responsible? My friend, Ben calls the former, “Teflon People” because nothing sticks to them. They didn’t do it, it was the other guy. Even if they did do it, they still didn’t do it because it was the other guy […]
Avery writes on Part 9- Conclusion: “I’ve been reading your archives lately and you’ve stated a few times that marriage makes you miserable. Do you think it could work this time? Sorry if this is none of my business, but I’m curious to find out how you plan to work it!” Avery – that’s a
Speaking of wasting time (in therapy)… Scott used to go the therapy, he had been seeing this guy for about 4 years. He told me he hadn’t gotten anything from it, calling his therapist “ineffectual”. This did not stop him from going though, and paying the guy his $150 an hour. Now I got tired
Saturn in is in Virgo. Most who read here have Pluto in Leo, Virgo, or Libra. This means, roughly one third of the people reading here have had Saturn transit conjunct natal Pluto. The rest of you are in the midst of it or have this transit coming up. So what happened? Or if you’re in the
People who waste my energy invariably waste their own. I guess you could call these people “sinks”. My first husband, a mega Scorpio and an electrical engineer introduced me to the concept of “sink” and “source” when it comes to energy. He explained there was only so much juice coming from a socket in the
Dear Elsa, What do I do about flirting with a married man who’s flirting back? I KNOW it’s wrong, and I’ve no intention of being a homewrecker (he is married with children). I was in a relationship once before with a married man (who divorced after we broke up, though his wife never found out
I was thinking about the soldier’s exploits and my own and thought of my (perennial) ex-boyfriend, Scott who came from a well-to-do family. He once told me that it was the “little people” who did everything important in the world. This was about 28 years ago at the time I was filing the sexual harassment
