Dear Elsa, The post about the 19 year old who fears sexual intimacy really hits home. I’m 23 and have the same panic-like behavior. I’ve held off from having sex despite a strong desire and need for it, due to a very strict upbringing. And not being able to have an outlet for this sexuality […]
Dear Elsa, I’m a Scorpio woman, he’s a Virgo man. We have been good friends for about four years; he was a customer in our shop. Unfortunately we closed our shop, but I kept in touch with him. The odd text here and there, and meeting for a cup of tea on the odd occasion.
Dear Elsa, I’m at my rope’s end. I am feeling worse than I did during my Saturn’s Return. EVERYTHING has collapsed around me: relationships, friendships, work (there is none), finances and most of all my faith. I cannot take it anymore. I’m constantly praying and trying to be open. I hunker down and wait to
My husband was raised in a conservative family, steeped in tradition, where as I was raised by progressive, eccentric and ultra-detached, Aquarians. And with the Pluto transit (uncover what is hidden) to my Moon (roots) these things have become center stage. Now when we were kids, this was one jacked up relationship! Because coming here
Dear Elsa, I have been married for 6 years. I am 46 so is my husband. He has used porn for the whole marriage. In the beginning of our relationship I gave it a shot, but discovered I enjoyed sex better without the porn; it seemed to distract from our intimacy level. He never stopped
Dear Elsa, I’ll come right to the point. I have been single all my life. I have been a single mother since 1982: my oldest child is 24 and my youngest is 5. My relationships always end and they have all been violent or unrequited/one sided. When will I ever meet a good man that
Hello Elsa, I’m a 45 year old single woman who started dating a Scorpio male about three months ago. We get along well, but I am wondering if ultimately he may be too serious and reserved for me – or if I am actually afraid of commitment. I can’t seem to enjoy the moment as
Dear Elsa, I have just ended a 5 year on-again off-again relationship. My heart is healing…slowly. I have been chatting with a young man from Morocco who hopes for us to meet, marry, and live together until we die. I don’t know whether to take this young man seriously, or keep my options open and
