Hi Elsa, I have been torn as to whether or not to continue communicating with my ex-fiance. I could either have a “no contact” stance or to encourage an open dialogue and actually encourage him to call me. I hope you can help me make the right decision. It has been about 4 years since […]
These are excerpts from the other night’s conversation with my ex from almost 3 decades ago, the career Special Forces guy. He has Mercury in Aries opposite my Mercury Mars in Libra. He’s a Scorpio Moon conjunct Neptune. I’m a packed 8th house. “Well it was just like lighting a match. And we’d both just
Dear Elsa, I was engaged to a foreigner until he broke it off in March of 2004 (Beware the Ides of March) because he wasn’t ready to remarry so soon after his divorce. The lesson I learned was that despite the unhappy ending, there ARE men who treat women with respect, love and generosity. However,
m. asks, regarding my strong belief my life is long: “Isn’t that kind of arrogant? What if you firmly believe in a long life yet you drink and drive. You risk your life. You can’t reason. I mean, I’m questioning.” m., I agree it seems very arrogant to claim you know the future. However, if
Dear Elsa, I met this man about three years ago through mutual friends and there was a attraction between us. We were still in the hanging out stage when he had a horrific accident. He had a heat stroke and was in the hospital for two months. During this time I went to the hospital
So one of the things I’ve learned over the course of my lifetime as a Saturn Neptune type is what you are afraid is going to happen is not what is going to happen. For example, say you’re 12th house Saturn and you have some awful dream. The first thing you think is oh, fuck
Dear Elsa, Please could you help me with a Scorpio guy? I’ve known him for ages- seven years, as he’s a friend of my partners and comes to our house often. I’ve never really looked at him closely or even fancied him. He has always been very nasty and sarcastic to me so I generally
Now for people who find all this made up reality scary, I wanted to point out how mainstream it really is. Consider what therapists tell you. “Fake it till you make it,” they say. And, “Act as if…” The idea is if you pretend (Neptune) something is real (Saturn) it will become so. A person
