Dear Elsa, I’m in love with my boss, who is also a dear friend. I’d be happy to leave my job if it meant we could be together. We’ve had drunken kisses on two occasions and spoke about being together, but he was ending a long term relationship at the time. He has since broke […]
Elsa, I could use some advice on healing the bitterness in my marriage. I’ve been married for nine years. The first two or three years, I was pretty mean and angry a lot of the time – kind of like the typical “shrew,” but with more bite. I didn’t speak to him nicely, and generally
Hi, Elsa. About a year ago I sent you birth data on me and a guy I had started dating. You told me that in 30 years, you’d never seen two people match so well… and one of the things you said was to quit looking for dirt on him, and quit looking in his
Dear Elsa, I’m really feeling depressed with my life. Even at this age, I have not found the love in my life. Whoever has crossed paths with me so far was not for me; they just leave me in tears. I don’t know whether I’m destined for true love or not. I have not been
Dear Elsa, I’m a lucky person, and the most part my life now is good. My partner and I are getting married shortly and I feel like I’m finally at a place of happiness and nurture and trust. A lot of the future looks nice – we’re young and happy and our cat doesn’t scratch
Hi Elsa! I have started casually seeing a man. There is VERY INTENSE chemistry, but after a couple of months the relationship doesn’t seem to be moving forward. We are just getting together for (fantastic) sex – but not going out and doing things together, or spending time together. I am a single Mum, so
Dear Elsa, The old saying goes, “If you love someone, set them free”. But when that someone is bound tightly to your heart, setting them free feels like cutting off a piece of yourself. There is a man I can’t get out of my head and my heart. I don’t know if I’m stubborn and
I heard from Maddalena of heliocentric-astrology.com today. She’s a building something over there with a very special feel. I like her understated writing style. Actually, I like her! This after just a couple brief emails and a spin around her site. So here’s some of what appeals to me. She wrote about Muhammed Ali, calling
