Hi Elsa – I have loved a younger man for the last 5 years. I got involved with him because of how he made me feel. But last year, I felt forced to face the age difference. I placed an ultimatum before him to move out if he didn’t get a job, since for the […]
Dear Elsa, How can I attain the honest, loving, stable relationship that I need and long for? Getting close to me is tough I know especially after two failed marriages. However I remain hopeful in spite of this. Bar scenes are difficult at best, and I find small talk useless and boring. It make me
Dear Elsa, I have been married for close to nine years. During this time, I have had one physical affair and many online flings… ranging from phone sex to cybersex. Hubby knew about very little about this – except for my real life affair, which I was very upfront about. I was deep into the
Dear Elsa, I have dated the same man for the past 5 years. We met when I was nineteen. Over the past five years, I have grown up and he has stayed the same as far as personality and way of life. I supported him while he finished college and I thought we were going
Elsa, It seems as though I have had nothing but bad luck. Every investment I have made is either a loser or break-even. Even my relationships are neither stable or long lasting. What’s the deal? I feel as though I’m using sound judgment. Will things change… or is this as good as it gets? Confused
Dear Elsa, I am lost. I lost the man I loved. I felt such a connection with him. I want to know, is he my soulmate? My heart is crying and aching. My mind said to stop talking to him because he doesn’t know what he wants. He is confused. But I can’t keep up
Hey Elsa, I’m worried that I frighten girls with my intensity. I go out to bars and clubs with my friends and we always have a good time. But I never have any luck with any of the girls there (getting numbers, having a good conversation, etc.). By the end of the night, I usually
Hi Elsa, In September 2001, my boyfriend died suddenly. We had lived together for nine years and had known each other for more than ten. I cannot seem to move on with the romantic end of my life. I’ve done both grief counseling and support groups, but I’m not letting go. Our relationship wasn’t perfect
