September 2011

If You Say It When You’re Angry, Does It Count?

Last night someone told me that what they said didn’t count because they said it when they were mad. I disagreed, feeling a person is responsible for what they say, regardless of your mood. Having Mars (impulsive, angry) conjunct Mercury (speech), I have learned this the hard way. Matter of fact, every single regret I

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psychodrama

Psychodrama

It seems I’ve developed an extreme distaste for psychodrama. Yours, mine, his or hers, it doesn’t matter. I’ve lost patience with triggered people, myself included, who want have extreme reactions or freak-outs over inconsequential things. I think the shift correlates with Pluto’s transit through my 12th house.  This transit has increased my sensitivity and made

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Do Relationships Prevent You From Becoming A Unique Person?

James Hollis writes in “Creating a Life: Finding Your Individual Path”: “If one does not become the eccentric, unique, one-of-a-kind person he or she was meant to be, then a violation of some large purpose of the cosmos has occurred. Individuation is not self-absorption, narcissism or self-interest. On the contrary, individuation is a humbling task

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Musical chairs

Musical Chairs Around The Zodiac

“I shall stay the way I am because I do not give a damn.” –Dorothy Parker I’m a Pisces. I’m also a Pisces Mercury and I tend to think in metaphor. So last night as I was chewing on my own last nerve and trying to lie perfectly still in front of the television I

Why Do People Cheat?

My husband has Mars (sex) in aspect with Saturn (control / responsibility). It’s in evidence here: “Well I have a theory about women who want to cheat with you,” he said.  “It has nothing to do with you. I think they just want to take something from someone else.”

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