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Hi Elsa, I have a question I am embarrassed about and ashamed to ask, but I thought you might be able to provide some clarity. The last thing I want to do is bad-mouth my man, but the strong attraction between us has a dark side: at times, I feel repulsed by him. Some of […]
Dear Elsa, As soon as I like somebody and build up a relationship to him I want to be the VIP in his life! I know that sounds immature and maybe it is but this tendency of mine really burdens me and many times it destroys my relationships. I am constantly asking the other if
There is no denying relationships are more complicated than they’ve been in the past. It’s become common people have conflicting desires or ideas around how relationship should form or be maintained… or not maintained. I see a lot people who seem to “travel” through relationships. They’re sort of constantly… moving… on.
A stellium is a group of three or more planets in one sign. If your child was born with a stellium in their natal chart, you can be sure they’re going to specialize in something. The larger the stellium, the more focused they’ll be. It’s sounds simple, but it’s not. Your child will exemplify the
Saturn will ingress into Pisces in March of 2023. This may seem to be off in the distance but Saturn rules time which marches on! Pisces can sneak up on a person. It morphs, conceals and disappears. Don’t be surprised when you wake up under this transit thinking, where did the time go? Saturn with
Mars is the planet the rules all cutting. The concept of cutting your losses is a learned skill rather than something you can reliably leave to human nature. I learned to cut my losses by playing cards as a kid. There are times you’ve got to fold your hand and absorb whatever losses result. You have
I vaguely remember the first time it was suggested that I “go with the flow”. It irritated me at the time. Maybe it’s because I’m earthy? But I did listen and as years went by, I met with this message many times in a myriad of ways. Going with the flow is the key to
Hi, Elsa: How do you break an obsession? I have Venus square to Pluto and I’ve struggled with obsessions, mostly unattainable obsessions. Sometimes to people, sex, food, objects and possessions… You name it. I find I am so fixed on it, I think about it all day. Perhaps it’s my connections to my 2nd and
