Dear Elsa, I have recently retired after 32 years. I did not cultivate healthy interests and have no friends. I feel that I made a serious mistake and have minor depression. My wife offers no real support. I have tried to volunteer but have not been successful. Is there respite on the way? Retired United […]
Dear Elsa, Last May, I was completely devastated by a breakup with a longtime boyfriend. The breakup came from out of nowhere–as far as I could see at the time–and it took me a very long time to stop feeling miserable. Every day was a struggle, and it’s only within the last four or five
“Whatcha doin’ P?” the soldier asked. We were on the phone. “Oh, I’m suffering through another episode of The Unit. This one is about SERE school,” I said. SERE is where they teach you to withstand torture. “I like watching it though. You told me about this and now I’m watching it.” “Yeah, they put
Do you ever think about lowering your expectations? This is another concept I think may come into vogue as a way to solve problems as Saturn leaves Leo for earthy Virgo and Jupiter and Pluto land in Capricorn post their transit of high flying, inflated Sagittarius. For example what if someone told you most relationships
While chatting with the soldier today he mentioned the year we met. I knew Saturn was close to where it is now but I did not know it in the exact place! Not the kind of thing an astrologer should miss, but you know. Neptune! So it turns out we met with Saturn conjunct the
Dear ElsaElsa, I have been seeing this Scorpio guy for the past year. The thing is, he has a premature ejaculation problem but he tells me he never had it before me. I feel like he is lying to me. He has not really opened up to me yet and we hardly meet but when
