Hi Elsa, Recently I’ve been having doubts about my way around relationships. It seems I always mistake people for joking when they actually DO like me, and vice versa when someone is just ‘having fun’ with me. I had a crush on someone once and did not let that person know from start to end. […]
As for people thinking I’m not real, this is my sister on the subject. This dialogue is real, circa 1994. She is talking about men (in general) that I date. “Well no one thinks you are real, Elsa. You tell them exactly who you are but they don’t believe you.” “Why? Why is that?” “I
I was talking to satori… “Well no one dead ever visits me,” I said. “I don’t know why. You’d think they would.” “Yeah.” “Well they don’t. Take Henry. Everyone thinks he should visit me. He visits them. This is what I hear! People tell me Henry visits all the time, so what am I supposed
Dear Elsa, I came out as a lesbian at age 49 and left my husband and son. I have had two unfulfilling lesbian relationships and currently live far from my son. I’m depressed and thinking I’ve made a mistake in living so far from my son. Do you think I need to get out of
Elsa, I read the advice that you put out to others and am amazed by your integrity. You lay it on the line as you see it, and that is why I am here. Over 2 years ago, my significant other and father of my kids left me. The first year I was just reeling,
Dear Elsa, I feel that I am up against a brick wall when it comes to shared parenting of my two kids with my ex-husband. He wants to be pulling all the strings, while having control over me and my affairs with the girls, and constantly telling me I must do things his way, “in
Dear Elsa, This may sound strange, but I wonder if my boyfriend has a small crush on one of his roommates. On paper, it might look like he wouldn’t be attracted. He prefers non-stoner, non-hippie, somewhat slender girls, and she is a curvy pot-smokin’ bohemian. But I just can’t shake the feeling. He speaks about
Hi Elsa, I’m dating an Aquarius right now. We met back in high school and remained friends till 4 years ago when things between us kinda grew. It was a fast and very rocky start. We always fought and argued and it was a very, very difficult time for me. Eventually things started to fall
