Regarding the “DNA of a relationship” it brings another thing to mind. If you read here a lot, you may have noticed I tend to stay in at least intermittent contact with some ex-loves. And frequently it’s significant. It is more than “Hi, you how are you”. Like with Scott. I am sitting there with […]
Dear Elsa, How is it possible that I’m not able to develop and maintain a stable, long-term relationship? This year I’m divorcing a man who I was sure I’d spend rest of my life with. I thought he was love of my life. After six great years, something happened – my love evaporated somewhere and
Dear Elsa, I am a 29 year old girl, and I’ve been having a relationship with a boy for more than one year. I am very much in love with him and he has told me that he feels the same – but he apologizes for his LACK of commitment with the excuse that he
If you read about Saturn transits to Venus or the 7th house you’ll often read you will be deprived (Saturn) or love and relationship (Venus / 7th house). This is not the case. It’s true some people may be without relationship during a Saturn transit through the 7th house but they’d be the minority. This
Dear Elsa, I am nervous about the upcoming school year. I had a hard time making friends last year. I pretty much became a loner. I don’t like school very much anymore and I am getting signs of depression. What do you suggest? High Schooler Dear High Schooler, I have to offer some kind of
Dear Elsa, I am a Scorpio woman married to a Pisces man. We are sexually incompatible. He is not willing to do what I need to be sexually satisfied. We have talked about it many times before, and still I spend my sexual encounters with him unfulfilled (plus they are now down to once a
Dear Elsa, I was sexually abused by my stepfather, from the time I was eight until I was thirteen. I went to counseling for it and thought I was pretty much over it. A couple of months ago, one of my children came to me feeling guilty and ashamed that he had been “playing doctor”
Dear Elsa, I stumbled on a guy at work one day and clearly I am attracted. He made a lot of eye contact with me for a while, until suddenly I noticed him. Before long we were talking a lot and laughing our heads off at work. Soon we were taking lunch together a lot
