Advice on anything and everything under the sun!
Dear Elsa, Back in April I started a “friend with benefits” relationship with a Cancer/Cancer-rising man who is 11 years younger than myself… and also my friend’s son. I had never thought of him as anything but my friend’s son until one night he called and came over and long story short, we became intimate. […]
Dear Elsa. I am in a very weird marriage. It is almost like we are roommates. We’ve been married for 18 years and I just want out. Unfortunately I can’t. We live in a town that is very expensive. I want my son to finish school here. He is a Junior and has only one
The Unabomber, Ted Kaczynski’s property, previously priced at $154,000 is now for sale, price reduced to $69,500. It brought this old post to mind. My new book caught my attention on the first page talking about how we as a collective get rid of houses where horrible crimes happen. The author mentions, “The Oxford Apartments”
The man in the last advice post left his lover of two years without explanation. I called him an “empty vessel”. Several people posted to disagree with me. That’s fine. I appreciate diverse opinions. But since so many argued for this man, I thought I’d explain my thinking. If you are in a long-standing intimate love relationship
Dear Elsa, I’m only 34. After I got married, my husband changed. He is a gambling addict with severe depression, and his sex drive is nil. I’m torn between remaining a dutiful wife or letting go of our marriage of 3 years. Even with counseling, our home isn’t a pleasant place and I’m battling fearfulness
Hi Elsa, I am SO confused about a recent break-up. I’ve never been so WOWED by a guy right from the start. Not necessarily by his looks – although I started thinking he was really good looking after a date or two. But from our very first emails and dates, I just had such a
Dear Elsa, I have been dating this man long-distance for 8 months now. He is married, though he’s been separated for two years and is filing for a divorce. I have a trust issue with him, because he lied about many things as we got to know each other through the ‘net. Since then, everything
