Patterns in relationship
I was talking to a friend the other day, when she told me she didn’t like to talk on the phone. “What?” I said. “What do you mean, you don’t like to talk on the phone?” “I hate talking on the phone,” she said. My mind raced. “But you always call when you’re driving. To […]
I wrote this post in 2022. I’m pulling it up, because two years later, I think people are catching on. They are no longer rushing to divorce, when they or their partner is going through something. They wind up benefitting, learning and growing in the process. Here’s the post I’ve come to see that romantic
When Venus squares Pluto in synastry, there’s almost always an obsessive quality to the relationship. There can be a deep love, but there’s often extreme jealousy. Relationship triangles are common. To be clear, this does not necessarily point to infidelity. Have you ever been jealous of your lover’s ex? Or a spouse that might have
Hi, Elsa What do you think about guilt? Does it have a real purpose or is it just something we should get rid of as soon as possible to go on with life? How does astrology relate to guilt? Gemini by the Sea, Colombia Hi, Gemini. Thanks for the question. Guilt definitely has a purpose.
I have never claimed to be a nice person! I have plenty of good qualities, but I don’t consider myself to be “nice”, however, I have tried to become (reliably) nice over this last year or so, or at least to do no harm. I’ve mentioned this a few times – so many people are
“In your style, do you feel composite charts are more, less or just as significant as synastry? I know that every astrologer has a different style & preference. Just wondering what your take on it is. Are they both different but hold just the same weight of importance?” They are both significant but for different
Continuing to mull what I know about psychopathy, first I want to mention, I know or have known a number of them. I’m not necessarily talking about my father when I write this stuff. Psychopaths love to mess with people. This doesn’t necessarily mean that you know it’s happening in the moment. The example offered
There was enough interest on the More On Psychological Immunity post, I want to elaborate and make this mechanism, very clear. I mentioned my father would start up with some oddness. My sister observed he had no staying power. I said this had a big impact, but I want to give you an actual example.
