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This is from, “Gaslighting, the Double Whammy, Interrogation and Other Methods of Covert Control in Psychotherapy and Analysis” by Theo. L. Dorpat “Gaslighting in a type of projective identification in which the individual (or group of individuals) attempt to influence the mental functioning of a second individual by causing the latter to doubt the validity […]
Dear Elsa, Which part of our chart contains our most primal, basic needs? Is it one house over another, one planet over another? For instance, in my healing from my break-up over the past year, it has occurred to me that my ex had a primal need to be chased–but I was oblivious to it.
I brought up that old post about Airing Dirty Laundry and got to thinking it would be okay if all my secrets came out provided it was ALL of them. I could see how this would be liberating. My husband tells the story of man someone tried to blackmail. They had film of him in
“What about the airing of dirty laundry? Somehow your secrets get out! How would the various signs react?” Capricorn would probably have the worst time because they are the most concerned for their public image. I think Scorpio would fare best. The betrayal would sting Scorpio and the perpetrator would be amputated completely and permanently
The soldier left this morning but quite inexplicably he is back home tonight. I had to drive 2 hours to pick him up and bring him back and will have to do the same in the morning but hey. A gift is a gift. “I didn’t clean the house,” I said on the way home.
satori writes: I’ve never understood violence and humiliation as humour. Today I watched a video on the nets where a woman was humiliated. Comments on the video were overwhelmingly of the flavour that while they’d be mad as hell if it happened to them they had laughed their asses off. I also don’t get the
