Hi, Elsa — I’ve noticed when people write in with problems involving a partner withholding sex (or with a lesser sex drive than the questioner), you often caution that it’s unlikely this situation will change. (Like with your answer to the Rejected Capricorn) This gulf will only widen, you’ve said in so many words on […]
Dear ElsaElsa! I just love your blog! I like your insightfulness and your straightforwardness: no beating about the bush! Your posting on the mars-scorpio-sex-OCD-connection touched me! A wonderful example of how directness and empathy can go hand-in-hand, indeed! I am an Aries with Scorpio rising myself, so I do relate to this urge to” express
Dear Elsa, I am a 30 year old married woman. I met a good looking 26 year old guy at work. He flirts with me every time he comes to my office. Last week he asked me to kiss him and I am suddenly developing some feelings. I have never thought that I would look
I have Virgo in my chart, and as acutely aware as I am of my secret lives, Scott read this post yesterday and shocked me with this observation: Most of you know I write a lot of true stories, accounts of various experiences I’ve had. And I have this ability to recall dialogue, verbatim. From
Hi Elsa, I am having trouble relating to my sisters. I talk to them all very superficially, but I feel I cannot be myself around them. We grew up in a religious home (evangelical Christians) but I am not religious. I curse like a trucker, I am pro-choice, I hang out with all kinds of
Hello, I’m a 29 year old female and I’m in such an emotional rut! I’m extremely lonely, depressed, and negative about the my past and future. The person I’ve been living with for 5 years has moved out to find his own place and I’m in emotional ruin. Throughout our relationship I was very jealous,
I was talking to Scott yesterday, he’s been having some trouble. I hate it when my friends are suffering, even more than when I’m suffering myself. Especially when there is little you can do. Anyway, we were talking and he came off with this: “Oh, Elsie don’t worry about me. You have terrible problems and
So how about another story? This one concerns my sister who is a Pisces (Neptune) with a Capricorn (Saturn) rising. She also has Saturn in the 12th (Neptune’s house) and Neptune in the 10th (Saturn’s house). I told you it ran in the family! Anyway, my sister is psychic. Think what you will. I grew
