Dear Elsa, I am nervous about the upcoming school year. I had a hard time making friends last year. I pretty much became a loner. I don’t like school very much anymore and I am getting signs of depression. What do you suggest? High Schooler Dear High Schooler, I have to offer some kind of […]
Dear Elsa, I am a Scorpio woman married to a Pisces man. We are sexually incompatible. He is not willing to do what I need to be sexually satisfied. We have talked about it many times before, and still I spend my sexual encounters with him unfulfilled (plus they are now down to once a
Dear Elsa, I was sexually abused by my stepfather, from the time I was eight until I was thirteen. I went to counseling for it and thought I was pretty much over it. A couple of months ago, one of my children came to me feeling guilty and ashamed that he had been “playing doctor”
Dear Elsa, I stumbled on a guy at work one day and clearly I am attracted. He made a lot of eye contact with me for a while, until suddenly I noticed him. Before long we were talking a lot and laughing our heads off at work. Soon we were taking lunch together a lot
Hi Elsa, I’ve always had trouble making and then keeping friendship alive. Sometimes friendships have ended so suddenly it feels akin to a break up. Relationships appearing and disappearing without warning. Anyhoo, for a long time I beat myself up about it, but now I think I’m okay. I’m toying with the idea that there’s
Dear Elsa, I’ve been involved with a woman for nine years. It’s been a stormy, volatile relationship. We have a child together. I love her, but I take her for granted. She feels like I don’t love her. Then when she leaves and is with somebody else, I’m hyper-focused on getting her back. She thinks
Dear Elsa, I am finally beginning to understand how powerful Neptune and 12th house placements have been in my life. In spite of Saturn and Mercury also figuring largely in my chart, I cannot seem to ground my sexual & romantic attractions in the here and now reality of day to day existence. Instead, I
Dear Elsa, I am unhappily married with a 7 year old son. Two years ago I had an affair with a man who I fell in love with. I want to grow old and spend the rest of my life with him. But we decided to end the affair, as it was wrong. It has
