Dear Elsa, I seem to fall into the same patterns in relationships. If I’m not getting the physical, verbal and emotional signals that I need, I automatically assume something is wrong. It builds and builds until I force the issue. My view tends to become black and white. When something occurs that is beyond my […]
Dear Elsa, Well, where do I start? My friend has been dating this guy and I hate the way he treats her. I don’t know what to tell her, since she’s too “in love” with him. He disrespects her, he’s constantly making her say sorry for nothing, and he’s so controlling over her. I just
Can you give me some advice? My lying cheat of 20 years has done it AGAIN! It has been ongoing as you can tell. I have told him it’s over, but I haven’t felt the need to tell him everything I know. It’s my way of having one up on him… I think? My problem
Dear Elsa, I’m having a really hard time in my life right now. I go through intense mood swings, and I’ve dropped out of school. I’ve also traveled but now I’m out of money, so I’m back living with my parents and working. Sometimes I despair of ever finding my footing, my place in life.
This gal, the Sagittarius I’ve mentioned…who I will have to find a nickname for told me the other night, she’d never seen someone with so many coincidences in their life. And I do think I have more than my share. Like the time Ben spotted my mother on the street. And I have so many
Dear Elsa, I’ve been friends with a male Scorpio for about 20 years now. He’s twelve years my junior. Since August of 2004, I’ve noticed little looks, stares and lots of attention. Just recently, at a large, loud party, he whispered something in my ear about me being beautiful. I could go on and on
Dear Elsa, I’m in love with my boss, who is also a dear friend. I’d be happy to leave my job if it meant we could be together. We’ve had drunken kisses on two occasions and spoke about being together, but he was ending a long term relationship at the time. He has since broke
Elsa, I could use some advice on healing the bitterness in my marriage. I’ve been married for nine years. The first two or three years, I was pretty mean and angry a lot of the time – kind of like the typical “shrew,” but with more bite. I didn’t speak to him nicely, and generally
