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Mara writes on Anti-Bitch “If someone has a twisted Pluto, the predatory instinct will surface. But if someone had learned Pluto lessons, this person can help other people trough hell and back, without hurting the other even more… Is that what you are saying?” Mara, I think that all energy is neutral until directed. Pluto […]
Venus is the planet that rules what we intrinsically value in relationships as well as how we value ourselves. If you’re in love with someone with Venus in Aries, they appreciate the direct approach. Don’t beat around the bush, just tell them what you want. So go on, make the first move— he likes his
Hi, Elsa. What are the markers of attraction to older men in a chart of a woman? It’s a general question, so I’m not including any birth data. Studying Hi, Studying. There are people who fare well by partnering outside their age range. There are clear markers of such a tendency, shown in chart. It’s
I keep hearing the phrase, “controlled chaos” used in various context. It’s a good description of the clash or the contact between Saturn which is known for governance and Uranus which reliably upsets the status quo. I’ve been talking to clients about how we can see this playing out in the collective. It can’t be
It takes Saturn 28.5 years to transit through each house in your chart. The planet spends about 2.5 years in each house. Getting a handle on this cycle will help you. If you’re a Capricorn (like I am) or Aquarius rising, you can set your clock via Saturn’s transit ’round your chart. Here’s a real-life
When Saturn transits your first house, invariably you feel pressure to work on yourself. This will be a slow process. There’s no extra credit for getting your work done fast during a Saturn transit. Saturn favors slow but steady progress. It’s better to get it right then it is to get it fast! When the
I’ve gotten pretty good at dealing with criticism, over the years. I’ve learned to never criticize anyone or anything unless my opinion is solicited. I’ve also learned how important it is to accept criticism. In fact, it’s a great fortune when someone with a fine mind shares their thoughts with you, even if they’re not
