Dear Elsa, I am a 29 year old girl, and I’ve been having a relationship with a boy for more than one year. I am very much in love with him and he has told me that he feels the same – but he apologizes for his LACK of commitment with the excuse that he […]
If you read about Saturn transits to Venus or the 7th house you’ll often read you will be deprived (Saturn) or love and relationship (Venus / 7th house). This is not the case. It’s true some people may be without relationship during a Saturn transit through the 7th house but they’d be the minority. This
Dear Elsa, I am nervous about the upcoming school year. I had a hard time making friends last year. I pretty much became a loner. I don’t like school very much anymore and I am getting signs of depression. What do you suggest? High Schooler Dear High Schooler, I have to offer some kind of
Dear Elsa, I am a Scorpio woman married to a Pisces man. We are sexually incompatible. He is not willing to do what I need to be sexually satisfied. We have talked about it many times before, and still I spend my sexual encounters with him unfulfilled (plus they are now down to once a
Dear Elsa, I was sexually abused by my stepfather, from the time I was eight until I was thirteen. I went to counseling for it and thought I was pretty much over it. A couple of months ago, one of my children came to me feeling guilty and ashamed that he had been “playing doctor”
Dear Elsa, I stumbled on a guy at work one day and clearly I am attracted. He made a lot of eye contact with me for a while, until suddenly I noticed him. Before long we were talking a lot and laughing our heads off at work. Soon we were taking lunch together a lot
Hi Elsa, I’ve always had trouble making and then keeping friendship alive. Sometimes friendships have ended so suddenly it feels akin to a break up. Relationships appearing and disappearing without warning. Anyhoo, for a long time I beat myself up about it, but now I think I’m okay. I’m toying with the idea that there’s
Dear Elsa, I’ve been involved with a woman for nine years. It’s been a stormy, volatile relationship. We have a child together. I love her, but I take her for granted. She feels like I don’t love her. Then when she leaves and is with somebody else, I’m hyper-focused on getting her back. She thinks
